Blog

This space gathers selected writings from my ongoing work at the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and adult development.

Here you'll find reflections on inner alignment, maturity, leadership, desire, fear, and the practical work of reorganising your life around what is true.

They're not quick tips or surface-level inspiration. They're invitations to think more honestly about the life you're shaping.

April 16, 2026

The Goodness You Can’t Receive.

I have a surefire way of making most people cringe. Or at least feel quite uncomfortable. Just look someone in…

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March 18, 2026

How to make better decisions – Part 2

In Part 1 I reflected on the importance of finding some distance from the loud voices within us — the narratives…

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March 14, 2026

How to make better decisions – Part 3.

If I were to summarise the heart of this short series, it would be something like this: we make better…

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March 11, 2026

How to make better decisions – Part 1

Few tasks in life are more formative than learning how to make good decisions. Many of us can no doubt…

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February 27, 2026

The most influential voice in your life

When I was young, there was a brief period when we had a small fish tank. It didn’t last long.…

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February 3, 2026

True satisfaction is a capacity, not an achievement

Lately I’ve been pondering the idea of satisfaction. The experience we all seem to want and organise our lives around.…

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January 22, 2026

When we stop arguing with reality

I’m not sure there are many practices that bring us back to centre, and quietly realign us with the soul…

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January 9, 2026

You have Permission (even if you think you don’t)

There is a quiet, almost hidden way we become our own worst enemy. I’m not referring to the obvious moments…

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December 28, 2025

What happiness tends to look like when it’s real

Most of us are aiming at something, even if we haven’t named it. We organise our lives around an image…

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December 9, 2025

Maps and Mirrors – Part 3: How to interpret the reality being reflected back at you

Most of us grow up thinking our inner world is something private, tucked away inside our own thoughts and emotions.…

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